Ok here it is. It is def a vpj file. It has those initials in front of all my folders. VPJ1.mp4 is what it says. What I did was select export video. I tried it to a dvd, I tried it to the usb and youtube. The only thing that worked was youtube. Also I have no idea how long sending you the video will take. I thought that after I went through all this stuff that I was done. I am over 40 hours trying to do this video and my nephews service is tomorrow. I am trying to send it the way you said but we will see.
Also as far as I can see the windows media player doesnt do dvd. All I see is audio. Nothing about how to play, upload or burn video.
I sent the link in messages. I hope it can tell you something.